Body Positive Influencer SHAMED For Losing Weight (Unacceptable)

the voice it’s not there yet , but kinda

@Nicole N shots fired

Depending on the pink. This pink is very mellow and not too girly so it is suiting

I agree 😁

I love that THIS is the most liked comment 😂 thank you!

He really does!!! 💗

to be fair, he’d look good in a trash bag 😅 ..or out or it 😏

@Tori’s Stories Not everyone should not be allowed. Missing limbs should be more acceptance and praised than some blubber of fat

@Tori’s Stories Yes, that’s what the fat acceptance movement was originally supposed to be. By ‘hijacked’ it is meant that more extreme views have now become associated with the movement. Many of the influencers and proponents of FA have moved away from the movement being inclusive to believing things such as Purposely losing weight is fat-phobic and that any attempt to control your eating is an eating disorder and comes from a place of self hatred.

The reterhic of FA today is so far removed from the original intention of the movement. There seems to be no support for people who choose to lose weight, even for health reasons. In fact, there’s a lot of vitriol instead. The point of FA for a lot of people these days seem less like support and moreso to keep people sick.

Originally body pos was for war victims, burn victims, people with things they could not change. Then it got hijacked by the FAM and they ruined it.

This always happens with movements…they start with pure intentions but as they grow, more people = more opinions. Stronger, more “passionate” (trying v v hard to word this as diplomatically as possible lol) voices inevitably make their “persepctive” become the popular viewpoint. Whether it’s in line with what the movement originally stood for or not, as time passes it morphs. Look at feminism, far right/left political groups, insert whatever example you’re thinking of here…if you look into almost *any* group’s past, you’ll see this happening. It’s human nature, unfortunately.

Being body positive should be coming to terms with things that happened to your body / you have been born with, that you can’t change by at the same time taking good care of the one body we have!

Oh cause being fat isn’t unhealthy dontcha know? /s She is offending a group of people who want to pretend to be healthy and fat.

Just read up on sonalee rashatwar. She posted about overweight pregnancies and women were posting they doctors considered them a high risk pregnancy and they were so offended. They think because they happened to get lucky to have a healthy child, that it’s perfectly healthy to be obese while pregnant.

We’re supposed to pretend obesity doesn’t affect fertility or lifespan because you can supposedly be healthy at every size.

They’re probably mad because they’re too fat to actually parent their kids. Can’t even go to the park or even walk through the mall without struggling with them. No kid wants to be around that.

It’s because they don’t want acceptance, they want superiority. If someone leaves the group then it proves their way of life is flawed and they can change i they put in the effort.

Yes so much negativity and judgement.

She didnt realize how toxic it was until she wanted to change. Then she saw how broken and toxic those women arwle.

They dont want positivity they want people telling them what they want to hear.

GaryTheBigDeal,,

EXACTLY! This falls under “misery loves company”. These so-called body positive people, are simply people who have so much self-loathing, that they cannot stand to see someone accomplish what they have failed to aspire to.

They are not body positive at all! They are complacent people who lack the will to better themselves, and would rather the company of like-minded individuals. Diet culture is another term used to deflect from the simple fact that many people fail to adopt a healthy lifestyle, and their bodies exhibit the negative consequences of these decisions.

Nobody is advocating unhealthy eating habits. Proper nutrition, which emphasizes real food, avoidance of artificial food, and refined sugar, is not a diet, defined as a temporary restrictive eating program. Proper nutrition is a part of a healthy lifestyle which includes exercise, and sufficient rest and recovery.

These people view weight loss as anathema, because they seek validation for their unhealthy lifestyle. The same people who are bullying her, often bemoan the shame and hate they have received in their lives for being fat. They are giant hypocrites.

This lady needs to stop looking to these terrible people for support. Stop reading their awful comments. Do not give their words, any power over you.

Block them. Seek the company and support of reasonable, likeminded individuals, not these miserable malcontents!

Amphibien This exactly. Yesss

@Amphibien Also to add a good chunk of the FAM have jealousy in some form to people who are aiming to lose weight. Yup both ends are terrible and extreme, moderation is the aim.

This is so well put

diet culture exists from laziness. they want the fastest results they can without actually putting in any real work over time. they all ask for secrets of weight loss like theres some magic pill. once they realise its just consistency everyday and changing your lifestyle for the better there not interested

@psionicinversion Makes sense, fastest Results least effort. I pulled a 8 month Weight loss from 250+ to 190 did very low calories. Bad idea working in a resurant when doing it was even worse. Since 2018 to now, been losing weight In a more healthy way. Which is it takes every day small changes(-7000 calories a week for 2 pounds)

Because they are triggered
They were happy with the lie until one of their influencers told the truth

Awesome, I’m a month in and 10 down. Woot!

That’s a great success! Well done!!

I’m so happy for you!Congratulations 🙂

I’ve lost almost 20 lbs, nice job!

I feel you! Nearly went down that rabbit hole! Started seriously loosing weight when my doc diagnosed a fatty liver. I was 22.

Please do! I did not take my fatty liver serious and it almost killed me. Now I’m a person who barely ever drank in her life dealing with cirrhosis.

peachyk3en no she lost that from her panniculectomy late last year

@Indigo Dandelion Has this been stated in a video?

My point

@Indigo Dandelion stop spreading rumours without having any proof, she never said she got a procedure

hey_you not spreading rumors. It’s true. Look at her old pictures with her old belly button and her new one on Instagram where she’s coming out of her pool. She got bottom belly surgery. There is a video by who is she 2. She shows pictures.

My thoughts are with you on your mental health. To be honest anyone trying to make you feel like you’re fatphobic for suffering from a very serious, very dangerous disorder are garbage and I hope that you receive nothing but love and support on your journey.

YESSSS. I struggle with anorexia as well, and what you said was spot on.

I agree as someone who’s also in recovery. I’m 10 years strong and now a mama: you can do it❤️

Congratulations,Michelle!!

They are, that’s why they’re doing it. Bullies are bullies to make themselves feel better by brining someone else down.